I don’t know about everyone else, but I loved that clip we saw from ‘My Big Fat Greek Wedding’! I have never seen it…i want to now though! When I was watching it, it reminded me a little bit of my cousin’s wedding!…My cousin got married to an English girl, Natalie about 3 or 4 years ago. The wedding and the events leading up to it is something I will always remember! Not because it was particularly amazing, but because of the joining of the two families and the organisation that went into it!
My cousin wanted to have a nice, quiet garden wedding, with only a few family and friends but, being Sri Lankan, my family wanted my cousin to have a larger Hindu wedding. There was a lot of pressure on my cousin and his bride so…they decided to have BOTH! This way, it would satify my family as well as themselves.
My cousin and Natalie organised the garden wedding, while my aunty, his mother, organised the Hindu wedding. This became a large, family affair! All of us flew over to Perth about a week before the wedding, hoping to chill and look around…instead we ended up helping with all aspects of the wedding! …Decorations…outfit organisation…food prep…you get the picture! By the time of the wedding, everyone in our family could honestly say that they had contributed a fair bit! The thing that made me chuckle the most, was that my aunty pretty much made all the decisions on her own, I hardly remember her consulting my cousin or Natalie.
Another interesting thing I remember about the wedding(s) was that, even though the garden wedding was first, and where they offically got married, most of my family only class the date of the Hindu wedding as significant. This to me shows how the legal significance of the first wedding was not important, the ritual of the Hindu wedding was the thing that counted.
However, both families did come together during the wedding time. I remember how my relatives tried to do a bit of dancing along with Natalie’s family (VERY funny to watch! some people just aren’t blessed with a sense of rhythm!). I also remember how all of Natalie’s female friends, and family members wore sari’s to the Hindu wedding! They seemed to love the cultural aspect of it…They actually looked better than we did! We also had a booklet outlining the meaning of the rituals from the Hindu wedding, so that everyone could feel involved and know what was going on. Otherwise they definately would have got bored…as Hindu weddings are at least for a few hours!!
So yes, that’s my observations on weddings! 😀